1.记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的，接受不能改变的。

remember what should be remembered, and forget what should be forgotten.alter what is changeable, and accept what is mutable.

2.能冲刷一切的除了眼泪，就是时间，以时间来推移感情，时间越长，冲突越淡，仿佛不断稀释的茶。

apart from tears, only time could wear everything away. while feeling is being processed by time, conflicts would be reconciled as time goes by, just like a cup of tea that is being continuously diluted.

3.怨言是上天得至人类最大的供物，也是人类祷告中最真诚的部分。

complaints are the greatest offerings that god obtains from human beings, as well as the most faithful prayers human beings might utter to god.

4.智慧的代价是矛盾。这是人生对人生观开的玩笑。

wisdom appears in contradiction to itself, which is a trick life plays on philosophy of life.

5.世上的姑娘总以为自己是骄傲的公主(除了少数极丑和少数极聪明的姑娘例外)。

girls always look on themselves as proud princesses, with the exception of a small number of either extremugly or exceedingly smart ones.

6.如果敌人让你生气，那说明你还没有胜他的把握。

it can be inferred that you lack confidence in a victory over your rivals from the fact that you're irritable against them.

7.如果朋友让你生气，那说明你仍然在意他的友情。

from that you would get angry with your friends, we can conclude you sitll care about the friendship between you.

8.令狐冲说“有些事情本身我们无法控制，只好控制自己。” 可是，他算什么!!

“ something is out of our control, so we have to command ourselves.“ said linghu chong, a known character in a chinese novel about persons adept in martial arts. who is, however, fucking he?

9.我不知道我现在做的哪些是对的，那些是错的，而当我终于老死的时候我才知道这些。所以我现在所能做的就是尽力做好每一件事，然后等待着老死。

only till my natural death.could i tell which of what i have been doing is right or wrong, so now i have to try to do well in everything, and then wait to die a natural death.

10.也许有些人很可恶，有些人很卑鄙。而当我设身为他想象的时候，我才知道：他比我还可怜。所以请原谅所有你见过的人，好人或者坏人。

some may be wicked, and some may be despicable. only when i put myself in their position did i know they are more miserable than i. so forgive all that you have met, no matter what kind of persons they are.