1 Don't steal other people's things. Yes， we all like to borrow a stapler or mug every now and again， but return it. Nothing is more infuriating however minor it seems. 借了同事的东西一定要归还。

2 Be trustworthy. If you are told a secret once and you share it， don't ever expect to be trusted again. 做个值得信赖的人，不要到处传话。

3 Don't expect your colleagues to carry your workload. The working week ends on Friday afternoon - not Thursday lunchtime.自己分内的工作自己完成。

4 Acknowledge other people's successes with good grace and good humor. 真心赞赏同事的成就。

5 Remember， if you're gossiping and backstabbing someone， that person will assume you are doing it about them， too. In the office， be kind， considerate and keep your nose clean. 办公室里不议论他人，不攻击他人。

6 To make the right decisions and push them through， you will need the kid gloves more often than the boxing gloves. 做出一个正确的决定并去实现它，你更需要的是哄小孩的耐性，而不是要和自己的同事拼个你死我活。

现在，你已经和上司、同事之间关系融洽，相处和谐，那么接下来，你需要做的就是充分在众人面前展露自我，露出锋芒。